Confessions of a Sex Educator, Life Lessons, Random Thoughts, Sex and Faith, Sex and Religion

Christ’s Love vs. the Church’s Condemnation of His Children

It isn't a secret that I have a difficult time reconciling my love for Jesus Christ, as well as His undying love for us, with the hellfire and brimstone teachings we often grow up hearing from pulpits across the nation. Let's face it, it was Christ Himself who beautifully and brazenly pissed off all the… Continue reading Christ’s Love vs. the Church’s Condemnation of His Children

Communication, Intimacy and Relationship Coaching, Intimacy and Relationships, Life Lessons, Sex and Faith, Sex and Religion, Sexuality

5 Types of Intimacy Necessary to a Successful, Loving, Sexual Relationship

When clients come to me looking for a better sex life with their partner, one of the first questions I always ask is, “How is your intimacy together?” All too often we are quick to equate intimacy with sex, meaning penetrative sex itself. But, what is intimacy really?

Intimacy and Relationship Coaching, Intimacy and Relationships, Sexuality

What is Intimacy and Relationship Coaching?

What is Intimacy and Relationship Coaching? Similar to life coaching, intimacy and relationship coaching is a process that aims to assist clients by helping them to work towards and achieve their personal and/or relationship goals. Unlike a general life coach who may assist their client with organizational skills or weight loss, a coach who focuses… Continue reading What is Intimacy and Relationship Coaching?

Confessions of a Sex Educator, Intimacy and Relationships, Life Lessons, Mothering, Sex and Religion, Sexuality

In Honor of Pride Month: This Christian Ally’s Credo

Dear Friends, As you've likely figured out by now, I am a practicing (as in, "I'm workin' at it, y'all, and am by no means perfect at it yet") Christian. As someone who has professed for over forty years a deep and abiding love for God Our Creator, I believe that every single human life… Continue reading In Honor of Pride Month: This Christian Ally’s Credo

Confessions of a Sex Educator, Intimacy and Relationships, Self-care, Sex and Religion, Sexuality

The Merry Month of May…sturbation

Traditional May Celebrations Traditionally, the month of May marks the return of springtime in the Northern Hemisphere. The first day of May, also known as May Day, is still celebrated in many parts of the globe. The ancient Celts called May Day “Beltane”—the day halfway between spring and summer as the time of fecundity and… Continue reading The Merry Month of May…sturbation

Communication, Confessions of a Sex Educator, Intimacy and Relationships, Sex and Religion, Sexuality, Videos: Sexuality

My Thoughts on Pornography [video]

As an adult sex and pleasure educator and relationship coach, I'm often asked about my thoughts on the adult entertainment industry. Well, in a sense, I work in the adult entertainment industry! Alas, Pornography - Are you Pro or Con? is the subject of my latest video. See if you can follow along as I… Continue reading My Thoughts on Pornography