It isn't a secret that I have a difficult time reconciling my love for Jesus Christ, as well as His undying love for us, with the hellfire and brimstone teachings we often grow up hearing from pulpits across the nation. Let's face it, it was Christ Himself who beautifully and brazenly pissed off all the… Continue reading Christ’s Love vs. the Church’s Condemnation of His Children
5 Types of Intimacy Necessary to a Successful, Loving, Sexual Relationship
When clients come to me looking for a better sex life with their partner, one of the first questions I always ask is, “How is your intimacy together?” All too often we are quick to equate intimacy with sex, meaning penetrative sex itself. But, what is intimacy really?
What if You Stopped Praying that God Would “Fix” Your Husband? [a guest post by Arrettres Hollins]
Sometimes when we are going through things in our marriage, we are completely focused on what is wrong with our husband. We go to God with lengthy prayers about what he needs to do to fix our husband. We rehearse his flaws, what he has done wrong. Sometimes, we even give God a timeline and… Continue reading What if You Stopped Praying that God Would “Fix” Your Husband? [a guest post by Arrettres Hollins]
What Churches Get Wrong about Sex
God does not hate sex. Let me repeat that just so there isn't any confusion. God does not hate sex. You may be wondering why I am opening with this line. Well, I'll tell you why. Almost everything I learned from well-meaning Christian adults led me to believe that God hated sex. And not only that,… Continue reading What Churches Get Wrong about Sex
Oh, My God: Sex and Spirituality
Faith-friendly. Sex-positive. Shame-free.
Gay Christianity is Not an Oxymoron [video series]
An oxymoron is a figure of speech in which two apparently contradictory terms appear together; for example, the expression "thundering silence" seems to contradict itself -- thunder being a loud sound and silence being the absence of sound. There are those who believe that, if you are a Christian, you cannot be gay (or lesbian, or… Continue reading Gay Christianity is Not an Oxymoron
In Honor of Pride Month: This Christian Ally’s Credo
Dear Friends, As you've likely figured out by now, I am a practicing (as in, "I'm workin' at it, y'all, and am by no means perfect at it yet") Christian. As someone who has professed for over forty years a deep and abiding love for God Our Creator, I believe that every single human life… Continue reading In Honor of Pride Month: This Christian Ally’s Credo
Yes, I’m a Christian Sex and Relationship Coach [video]
How can I be sex-positive and a Christian at the same time? Because I love Christ and I love helping people reverse sexual shame, repression, and negativity. I share why in this video.
How to Practice Self-love
How to, and why, you should practice self-love are the topics discussed in this week's video.
7 Pillars of Strong Relationships (video series, parts 4-6)
Knowing the seven pillars of strong, healthy relationships is important knowledge for anyone who wants to build, nurture, and solidify their personal and interpersonal relationships.