Of course, I always promote honest and open communication in every relationship, especially the one you have with your committed, loving partner. That said, you may be surprised to find me promoting the idea that honesty is not always the best policy when it comes to the bedroom, and I'll explain why. When Honesty IS… Continue reading When Honesty is NOT the Best Policy
Category: Communication
5 Types of Intimacy Necessary to a Successful, Loving, Sexual Relationship
When clients come to me looking for a better sex life with their partner, one of the first questions I always ask is, “How is your intimacy together?” All too often we are quick to equate intimacy with sex, meaning penetrative sex itself. But, what is intimacy really?
What if You Stopped Praying that God Would “Fix” Your Husband? [a guest post by Arrettres Hollins]
Sometimes when we are going through things in our marriage, we are completely focused on what is wrong with our husband. We go to God with lengthy prayers about what he needs to do to fix our husband. We rehearse his flaws, what he has done wrong. Sometimes, we even give God a timeline and… Continue reading What if You Stopped Praying that God Would “Fix” Your Husband? [a guest post by Arrettres Hollins]
What Churches Get Wrong about Sex
God does not hate sex. Let me repeat that just so there isn't any confusion. God does not hate sex. You may be wondering why I am opening with this line. Well, I'll tell you why. Almost everything I learned from well-meaning Christian adults led me to believe that God hated sex. And not only that,… Continue reading What Churches Get Wrong about Sex
Oh, My God: Sex and Spirituality
Faith-friendly. Sex-positive. Shame-free.
How Intimacy Strengthens Relationships [video]
Want to strengthen your entire relationship with your lover? Intimacy is the key; and in this video, Micki shares the five types of intimacy that will strengthen your marriage or partnership.
The number 1 reason for PAIN involved with SEX Revealed [Guest Post by Myola Woods]
Myola Woods is one of my favorite passion experts. In this post, she shares 5 practical ways to remove painful tension from sex.
My Thoughts on Pornography [video]
As an adult sex and pleasure educator and relationship coach, I'm often asked about my thoughts on the adult entertainment industry. Well, in a sense, I work in the adult entertainment industry! Alas, Pornography - Are you Pro or Con? is the subject of my latest video. See if you can follow along as I… Continue reading My Thoughts on Pornography
Bedtime as “We” Time
Research has shown time and time again that most relationships end because of loss of intimacy and connection.
Are You and Your Partner PDA Compatible?
Who doesn't love a little public display of affection? Well, apparently a lot of people.