About Micki

from the desk of Micki Allen

I first began educating people about human sexuality while I was a student at Texas Tech University in 1990 when I joined the South Plains AIDS Resource Center, one of the first AIDS outreach programs in West Texas, as a student liaison.

While teaching Literature and Grammar at a private Christian high school, I was appointed to teach sex education in Health classes, limited to an abstinence-only curriculum. It was at that time I came to understand what a disservice it was to young people. I realized that conditioning impressionable minds to view sex as something taboo and akin to only disease and unwanted pregnancy could have devastating and long-lasting ill-effects.

I’ve since made it my primary mission to repair the misrepresentation that I, and countless other well-meaning adults, presented concerning Christian sexuality.  I now foster and encourage Christians in overcoming social conditioning and religious repression in order to begin building and maintaining healthy intimate relationships.

My spice and I have been married since 1993 and together have co-created seven fiercely independent and fantastic children.

Clan Allen, est. 1993

My approach to coaching is realistic but fun, educational, holistic, and science-based. I encourage my clients in building their interpersonal relationships and towards embracing healthy, vibrant sexuality.

If you are interested in learning more, I’m here for you. I encourage you to contact me here.


I am a certified Life Coach specializing in Intimacy and Relationship Coaching as well as Sexual Health & Pleasure Educator and Consultant. I assist individuals and couples in clarifying their own intimate needs and boundaries, suggesting the tools they need to experience exceptional sexual health and well-being. I also offer educational workshops centered around sexual health and pleasure. Bachelorettes and newly-marrieds find my workshop most helpful. See my full credentials, education, and certification at Linkedin

I was a Pleasure Professional affiliated with O.school centering on a host of different sex and relationship topics including sex and religion, healthy communication, creating and re-creating partnered relationship visions, pleasure techniques, and sexual health.

Yes, I am an ordained non-denominational Christian minister, but I am not a preacher. I do not preach and I do not proselytize, and I am not beholden to any particular church or religious institution. My goal is to simply share the love of our God with the compassion of Jesus Christ. I abide neither shame nor blame. Period. Full stop. Although I come from a Judeo-Christian perspective, please know that I work with clients from all spiritual beliefs and backgrounds.  


For clients who are struggling with specific, deeply rooted challenges, I am a Certified 7th Path Instructor.  The 7th Path Self-Hypnosis® System is a Mind-Body-Spirit Approach that combines the benefits of meditation and prayer with the power of self-hypnosis to help you make good, positive changes in your life, including healthy sexual & intimate expression.

Visit my YouTube page for informative sex and relationship videos.